“Are you travelling with me or that thing”, her newly wed husband asked!

My female friend was packing for her honeymoon and her loved one had a reaction on her packing her vibrator. After a discussion she choose to left the toy at home. The result was no orgasms for her on the entire trip. Not the best start of the marriage!

Why do you think so many men feel uneasy with the fact that women have sex toys. Maybe it is the feeling of inferiority towards not being able to be enough for their women? In fact, there is very few women who can reach climax from penetration alone. This would not come as a news flash for anyone since Kamasutra in India figured this out 2000 years ago.

We men are comparatively very easy to please. Just grab on the thing and move it in any direction and we are happy campers. Women on the other hand is very different in exactly where they wish to be touched, how firm and for how long. To make a chick happy in bed requires us men to be creative and test everything and then some.

Some women prefer or are totally dependent on stimulation from a toy to feel the highest levels of pleasure and it is often something she is a little embarrassed about and sometimes she is also hiding her toy from her partner.

Maybe it is time for us men to be a little bit more secure in ourselves and refrain from feeling envy on a piece of rubber, even if it manages to do things with our woman and the size of it might be bigger then ours. She is not using the thing to make us uncomfortable, but rather to be able to feel as much pleasure as possible in our company.

Maybe we men should instead take more initiatives. Make her sex toy experience easy and effortless and maybe also make sure to provide and help her try out the best tools for her!

What do you think? What is your experience with partners and their toys? Do share in the comments!